Real Friends and Fake Friends

There will always be real friends and fake friends. It is difficult to distinguish the two because both will appear the same in the beginning but so different at the end. 

But no matter what the outcome, how the friends turn out in the end, it should not stop me from making new friends. Once bitten, twice shy should not be applied to friendship. 

I feel that I should always be a real friend, always, even to those who chose to be fake. Not because they are nice but because I am.

Seriously?

If you love someone, you gotta be willing to fight for them.

Seriously? Seriously!

♪ Smile - Charlie Chaplin

Smile though your heart is aching
Smile even though it's breaking.
When there are clouds in the sky you'll get by.

If you smile through your pain and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll see the sun come shining through
For you.

Light up your face with gladness,
Hide every trace of sadness.
Although a tear may be ever so near
That's the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying.
You'll find that life is still worthwhile-
If you just smile.

Shahlohm..

So Calming!

Siracusa

Insanely in Love

Maya was wondering when was the last time she felt like this. It was insane and she knew it, everyone she knew was settling into relationships which were stable, predictable and had a good future. Her friends were all dating or married to men with stable jobs and a predictable life. Past the teenage years it only made sense to look for something real and here she was, in love with a hobo. He was not like anyone she had ever met or read about. He had this amazing free spirit which she found magnetic, a desire to keep flying which only made him more appealing to her. Her senses told her he was all wrong and obsessing about him was plain stupid, but when the hell did the heart listen to the mind. They always functioned as two completely separate entities who can never reach a consensus on anything. Her best friend was moving into her new apartment with her two kids, her brother had recently moved into the suburbs with his family even her twin had moved to Paris to be with her boyfriend who she had been dating for seven year and here she was, going nuts about a guy who lived in a trailer park and would never commit to her. Maya knew she could never tie him down and she loved that about him just as much as she loved everything else about him. Strangely Maya even thought it would be the coolest thing to do move in with him in his RV. Life would be a crazy adventure with him and she wanted that, but at the back of her mind she was wondering if she would be able to sustain it. It would be like a crazy trip to Vegas but Vegas trips don't last forever and she was wondering how long this would.

Sounds familiar? 

Natasha Bedingfield - Soulmate

Forgiveness Prayer

Lord, I'm coming to You because I need to forgive him. I don't have anything to bring except all this pain and anger about what's happened. 

Lord, I don't know what to do with it all, so I'm bringing it to you and laying it at Your feet. Your Word says I have to forgive him, so I'm making the decision to do it. 

PLEASE heal me on the inside so I can let go of this. 

I pray for him, please deal with him in the way You know is best. Heal him and bless him, Lord.

Thank you Lord, for taking all this from me. Thank you for healing me. And thank you for helping him. I ask this in Jesus name.

AMEN!

The Way GOD Planned It

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.