Saturday, November 30, 2013
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Monday, November 25, 2013
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Thursday, October 3, 2013
Friday, September 13, 2013
As I Wait
Waiting on You, LORD..
Will I love the things so much deeper if I wait for them?
Will I treasure the promises that come true when I wait on You?
In this world we are taught to never wait always get everything straight away but I believe that waiting makes me fall in love with Your will for my life.
As I wait, I learn to truly live every moment for You..
Shahlohm..
Will I love the things so much deeper if I wait for them?
Will I treasure the promises that come true when I wait on You?
In this world we are taught to never wait always get everything straight away but I believe that waiting makes me fall in love with Your will for my life.
As I wait, I learn to truly live every moment for You..
Shahlohm..
Friday, September 6, 2013
Never Lower Your Standard
Never lower you standard, settle or be an option in a relationship!
Don’t put him/her 1st if he/she putting you 2nd, 3rd or worse! Don’t let loneliness or a need for attention allow you to be a booty call, side chick or the main woman because all are degrading and make you seem desperate!
You deserve so much better so don't get stuck in a rut, always doing for someone who doesn't do for you because you lose yourself, your joy, the things and people that make you most happy in the process!
Meaning, relationships should not be 50/50, believe it or not!
Both people should be giving their 100% all and be number 1 priorities to each other!
Shahlohm..
Don’t put him/her 1st if he/she putting you 2nd, 3rd or worse! Don’t let loneliness or a need for attention allow you to be a booty call, side chick or the main woman because all are degrading and make you seem desperate!
You deserve so much better so don't get stuck in a rut, always doing for someone who doesn't do for you because you lose yourself, your joy, the things and people that make you most happy in the process!
Meaning, relationships should not be 50/50, believe it or not!
Both people should be giving their 100% all and be number 1 priorities to each other!
Shahlohm..
Friday, August 30, 2013
The Reason
What if there really is a reason that relationship never worked?
You know, the one you're sure you were made for each other. You tried to get them to like you, to love you the way you want, to care and to make you their one and only, you were friends, best friends but nothing more. And you began to think it was your fault. Maybe if you just changed, they would see you as more.
But what if it's not you?
Have you ever thought maybe the LORD protected you? You tried to throw yourself into a relationship but imagine it''s the LORD that kept you apart. Not because you're not worth it, but because He has something better?
What if instead of doubting who you are because that special someone never really love you or asked you to marry you, you thank the LORD for saving you from the scars of broken relationship/marriage?
It's hard, but we should thankfully submit to His plan, because it's so much better than our greatest dreams for ourselves.
Shahlohm..
You know, the one you're sure you were made for each other. You tried to get them to like you, to love you the way you want, to care and to make you their one and only, you were friends, best friends but nothing more. And you began to think it was your fault. Maybe if you just changed, they would see you as more.
But what if it's not you?
Have you ever thought maybe the LORD protected you? You tried to throw yourself into a relationship but imagine it''s the LORD that kept you apart. Not because you're not worth it, but because He has something better?
What if instead of doubting who you are because that special someone never really love you or asked you to marry you, you thank the LORD for saving you from the scars of broken relationship/marriage?
It's hard, but we should thankfully submit to His plan, because it's so much better than our greatest dreams for ourselves.
Shahlohm..
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
The Only Marriage
In a world where sex sells and divorce rates are at an all time high, I told my bf the other day that we will, "Show them how it's done", speaking of being in relationship for almost 10 months and staying together and in love, that we will not get divorced if the LORD allows us to get married someday.
Sadly, a lot of people look at young married couples or newlyweds and think, this is only their first marriage..
NO, it is supposed to be your only marriage!
If you are getting ready to marry someone with the mindset that you can always divorce if it doesn't work out, then please save yourself the heartache and don't do it!
True love is real, it does still exist, ladies. And any woman or man who tells you the love dies, don't listen to them. Marriage is a responsibility and it takes work from both ends. But more than that, it takes the LORD being the center of the relationship.
And that is why it is so important to pray and make sure you are marrying the right person before you do it. Always keep the LORD number one, pray that the love for the LORD and your spouse stays alive and make it work! It's a beautiful thing and worth waiting for!
Shahlohm..
Sadly, a lot of people look at young married couples or newlyweds and think, this is only their first marriage..
NO, it is supposed to be your only marriage!
If you are getting ready to marry someone with the mindset that you can always divorce if it doesn't work out, then please save yourself the heartache and don't do it!
True love is real, it does still exist, ladies. And any woman or man who tells you the love dies, don't listen to them. Marriage is a responsibility and it takes work from both ends. But more than that, it takes the LORD being the center of the relationship.
And that is why it is so important to pray and make sure you are marrying the right person before you do it. Always keep the LORD number one, pray that the love for the LORD and your spouse stays alive and make it work! It's a beautiful thing and worth waiting for!
Shahlohm..
Saturday, August 24, 2013
How To Love A Woman
"You may not be her first, her last, or her only.
She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters?
She's not perfect- you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together, but if she can make you laugh; cause you to think twice; and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can.
She may not be thinking about you every second of the day,but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart.
So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give.
Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there."
Bob Marley
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)